Thursday, Mar 11th, 2010

Traditions — October 8, 2009 2:00 — View Comments Written by: M.K.

The Aloha Spirit

We’ve all heard the word aloha. This term is used in every day life, whether it’s greeting a family, friend, or stranger.  This is the basic usage of the word, however aloha is so much more than that. It means love, compassion,  grace, and kindness.  The English language does not have a synonym, but perhaps a comparable word would be from the Greek, agape.

Photo credit: Philipson Photography

Photo credit: Philipson Photography

A very wise teacher of mine once told me that to define something means to set limits and restrictions on a word. The fact that aloha has so many definitions can only mean that it is a word without any restrictions, which is how you should express it — without boundaries, limits.  Aloha is what you feel. It lives insides of your heart and when you express aloha, you share it with the world.

You need to understand the concept of aloha before you understand the concept of the “aloha spirit“. Just as aloha is love, compassion, and grace; the spirit of aloha entails living with aloha day to day.

To embody the aloha spirit simply means to have good feelings toward other people, without limits.  Above all, the aloha spirit symbolizes acceptance — of all.

The Aloha Spirit in Action

A couple of weeks ago as I was walking to my geology class, I saw someone on the sidewalk trying to pump air into a flat tire. It was obvious that the teenager didn’t have a clue what he was doing. I would have offered to help, except that in the process of giving my assistance, no doubt I would have found a way to flatten the other tire as well. So I kept my distance, but I saw a homeless man walk by him and then double back. He bent down next to the boy and chatted with him for a little bit.  I watched as the teenager sort of leaned away from the man, as if a little frightened by him. I was worried too.  Yet, the man reached down and adjusted the pump in the tire and then he handed the pump back to the boy and walked away.  Soon the tire was being inflated with air.  The boy called to the man and said, “Uhh…hey thanks!”

There is a Hawaiian proverb that says, “I ka ‘olelo no ke ola,” which means “in the language or word is life.” If you live by this word, you will live by a concept that can literally change the world.

Be warned, the aloha spirit is also addicting! What are your favorite experiences with the aloha spirit?

Google Buzz
Share and Enjoy:
  • StumbleUpon
  • Facebook
  • Digg
  • del.icio.us
  • Technorati
  • Mixx
  • Faves
  • Ping.fm
  • Reddit
  • Google Bookmarks
  • Kirtsy
  • Current
  • email

Related posts:

  1. Sharing the Aloha Spirit Through Wagging Tails “Aloha Spirit” is the coordination of mind and heart...
  2. Put A Little Aloha In Your Shirt I will never forget walking through Waikiki last summer....
  3. Aloha Harvard One of my most vivid memories of Freshman Week...
  4. Warriors At Aloha Stadium I’ve been attending University of Hawaii football games since...
  5. May Day is Lei Day and Thriving On May 1st of last year, the residents of...

Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.

  • Ka Lokomaika`i is how I live and how I try to understand the Aloha Spirit.

    I may not be from Hawaii but as a child born a from Puerto Rican, Haitian background and learned by being immersed in Korean, Japanese, Filipino and Hawaiian cultures it has always been taught to me to simply have Ka Lokomaika`i ("Good Insides") or a "Pure Heart" and Respect and Accept All.

    I think thats why I embraced Hawaii... because you all embraced me. I came an adopted kid with a harsh background of struggling to find acceptance. Trying to even find myself amid the hatred being tossed at me. I found Aloha, Acceptance, Tolerance, a New Family that loved me unconditionally and that was my Na `Ohana o Hawai`i.

    It has been 26 years and looking forward to 80 more living in the Aloha Spirit.

    Mahalo barley touches how I feel about my Adopted Home.

    #Aloha
  • MK615
    Thank you for sharing your story. I've heard that home is where your heart is and I am so happy that you as well as your heart have found one in Hawai'i nei.
blog comments powered by Disqus
Search